According to the Census Bureau's annual American Community Survey, there are 104 million unmarried Americans -- nearly half of the adult population. A 2010 Pew Research survey found that 52 percent of millennials say being a good parent is "one of the most important things" in life, but just 30 percent say the same about having a successful marriage. Interestingly, this corresponds to a drop in the divorce rate: In 2005, there were 16.7 divorces per 1,000 couples compared with 22.8 in 1979.
Opposites attract. That's not just true of love, it turns out, but also good ideas.
John Cary was trained as an architect. In school, he and his friends obsessed over their latest projects in the studio, late into the night. They talked about materials and concepts but never worried much about the people that would potentially live or work in the structures they were laboring over.
Turns out, architects generally try to avoid speaking to their clients but frequently speak for their clients. This is reinforced in the way that architecture is described in the press, in the way that award programs and design competitions are juried. Clients are all but invisible. Their stories are nowhere to be found. Before John met me, he thought storytelling was for kids.
Women dancing outside a school in the Democratic Republic of Congo (Flickr/Mulungwishi mission station, D.R. Congo photostream)
It's a moment for revolutions. Some are loud and measured in the millions. Some are tearing down dying regimes. Some are quieter, characterized by the slow but steady building of a new paradigm. A Congolese woman in an orange Day-Glo vest perches on a ladder and adds a brick to the growing wall -- that's a picture, one you haven't seen, of a less publicized revolution.
People wave at the ambulance carrying U.S. Rep. Gabrielle Giffords, D-Ariz., on Friday, Jan. 21, 2011. (AP Photo/Arizona Daily Star, Mamta Popat)
You know you're in Santa Fe when Sunday morning services take place in a travel store. Which is where I found myself over the holidays, surrounded by white-haired seniors of the far-left variety and travel guides on floor-to-ceiling shelves. The lecturer for the morning was Craig Barnes, author of Democracy at the Crossroads and a local public-radio host. A frequent lecturer on political issues in the Santa Fe area, he sat astride a stool and asked the fleece-clothed mystics gathered: "What would be a wise course in an age of demagoguery?"