Jessica Valenti

Jessica Valenti is author of The Purity Myth: How America's Obsession with Virginity is Hurting Young Women and founder of Feministing.com.

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Radicalizing Love

If monogamous love limits women, then perhaps feminism is the adultery of social norms.

Women's and gender studies classes have a familiar canon. Women, Race and Class by Angela Davis. The Feminine Mystique by Betty Friedan. Feminist Theory: From Margin to Center by bell hooks. Books about love as a form of capitalist enslavement and adultery as a radical political act -- with pictures of lingerie-clad women on the cover, to boot -- don't often make the cut. But of all the feminist literature I've read, from Judith Butler-style high theory to photocopied 'zines, it is Laura Kipnis' Against Love: A Polemic that most profoundly changed the way I think about politics. Against Love is exactly that: an unabashed critique of romantic love. When I first picked up the book, about a year after completing my graduate degree in women's and gender studies, I was skeptical. I had read polemics before, but an unwavering stance against love ? It unnerved me. As a serial monogamist who tended to put as much time and attention into my relationships as I did my career, education, and...