Kristof has a good column today calling for American to be a better -- which is to say, tougher -- friend to Israel. He also makes a point that brings into striking clarity why the two sides view the conflict so differently. First he quotes a reader saying "While I do condemn [Israeli] violence, it pales in contrast to Palestinian suicide bombers, rockets and other acts of terror against Jews." Kristof doesn't dispute the point. But he offers a counter-fact: "B’Tselem, the Israeli human rights organization, reports that a total of 123 Israeli minors have been killed by Palestinians since the second intifada began in 2000, compared with 951 Palestinian minors killed by Israeli security forces." When Jews talk about the ethics of the Israeli response, they tend to emphasize the recklessness and cruelty of Palestinian terrorists. The words most often heard are "target civilians." The Israelis are right, in other words, because they carry out limited military operations against discrete targets, which sets them ethically apart from members of Hamas who murder innocents because it's an effective tactic. That is indisputable. Palestinians, by contrast, speak of the war in terms of absolute costs: They have suffered more, buried more, seen more of their freedoms and land and dignity taken from them. To them, it seems insane to condemn Palestinian tactics when the Israelis have killed so many more innocent children. That too is indisputable. Both sides are right. There's a passage in Aaron David Miller's excellent book The Much Too Promised Land
that makes this point elegantly. "The prospects of reconciling the interests of an occupied nation with those of a threatened one seemed slim to none," he says. In many ways, that's the essential truth of the conflict: The two sides don't judge themselves similarly. The Israelis see themselves as threatened innocents, not oppressors. The Palestinians see themselves as an occupied and humiliated nation, not aggressors. The Israelis see themselves as inexplicably under attack, and acting only in defense. The Palestinians see themselves as losing a war against a much stronger, and demonstrably more brutal, occupier. There's not a whole lot of middle ground between those two conceptions of the conflict. that makes this point elegantly. "The prospects of reconciling the interests of an occupied nation with those of a threatened one seemed slim to none," he says. In many ways, that's the essential truth of the conflict: The two sides don't judge themselves similarly. The Israelis see themselves as threatened innocents, not oppressors. The Palestinians see themselves as an occupied and humiliated nation, not aggressors. The Israelis see themselves as inexplicably under attack, and acting only in defense. The Palestinians see themselves as losing a war against a much stronger, and demonstrably more brutal, occupier. There's not a whole lot of middle ground between those two conceptions of the conflict.
